I gave this magnet to my husband recently. Mainly because he’s been depressed about his career prospects, but it seems applicable for this part of our journey, too. (Also, I showed it to him first as I wasn’t sure whether he’d find it amusing or annoying.)
Over the last days I have done so many thing I’d been looking forward to, yet sometimes feared would never happen for me.
Granted, some days we were preoccupied with concerns about whether or not I might be developing preeclampsia, but as my blood pressure has stabilized at around-120/low-80s and my 24h protein came back at 200 (neither really great, but still below any official thresholds) while my liver enzymes are at the lower range of normal (which is good!), I’m hoping we can at least delay, if not fully avoid that part.
But. I folded tiny laundry. Onesies that we actually bought for Strawberry Baby. We have stacks of gDiaper* inserts at home. We decided on and ordered a crib, and even some other nursery furniture. When I brought up the nursery issue two months ago, H didn’t want to set up one – his official point was that she’d sleep in our room anyway and wouldn’t need that much other stuff. And that he wanted to keep this room set up for watching movies with his projector. How much he really believes in the latter and how much of this was self-protection I don’t know, but somehow (without poking from my side) he picked out some dressers and asked if we wanted to get these.
Lastly, we even bought a stroller and a car seat! In a real store, not “just” online. All this makes the thought of bringing home a baby very real. For the last step we managed to find the sweet spot between my renewed drivers license finally arriving** and, well, getting the car seat before the baby arrives. Because while I’m happy to keep her inside for another 6 weeks, my MFM (who is very sweet and very thorough and might be more worried about preeclampsia than I am, though he probably has the better perspective) said that, if my labs were to start looking bad, they’d recommend delivery at any point after 34 weeks. Which is tomorrow. Whew. Strawberry and I get to do weekly testing, which I first thought would be a nice reassurance, but really, they should call it stress-test for the parents instead of nonstress-test for the baby. I don’t like nurses coming in to “wake up” my baby or bug her with a weird “baby alarm clock” so that she starts moving and her heart rate goes up. But of course the main goal is to keep her safe, inside or out.
* They seem like the most realistic approach for me right now, with a husband that’s highly skeptical of any non-disposable options and no washing machine of our own (there’s a couple in the building we can use, but it’s not free). Plus, they’re cute :)
** If you’re here on a visa it expires with the visa. Which for me is every year. So then you get to send in all your paperwork on the visa extension and get a renewed license. I just wasn’t counting on that taking 2 months.
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love that you are folding tiny onsies and that after 34 works they feel good!! You are doing so awesome and I can’t wait to see pictures of Strawberry Baby. A couple more months!! <3 You are amazing!!
Thanks Holly :) Actually it’s more like a couple more weeks, unbelievably…
I love that you are finally getting to do these things that you questioned whether you’d ever get to! How exciting that you are 34 weeks! Congrats! I’m glad your bp has stabilized and I hope it continues to stay within acceptable ranges. Praying that things continue right along!
Thank you :) I’m sure you can relate to some of these feelings.
I can’t believe how close you are now. Strawberry Baby is almost here and you’ll be folding onesies like nobody’s business!
Even I cannot believe that it’s just a couple more weeks…
34 weeks! Pretty soon you’ll be NOT folding the onesies because babies don’t care. :)
This made me laugh ;) I think I’m already rather lax when it comes to folding, but yo may be onto something here…