birth story part four: similarities

It must have been shortly after birth when our sweet nurse, M, was looking at the babies with us. H pointed out that they both had my nose and cheeks. But little A’s hands and feet were so much like her dad’s, it was amazing. Even her shoulder and arm muscles – she would have been a power girl! It was wonderful and heartbreaking at the same time.

Both of us have always said that adoption is an option for us. I don’t think either of us was very attached to physical resemblance. And still, it was so special to see what our children, these particular combinations of H and me, looked like.

I don’t think I saw it in the hospital, but later at home, maybe even days later, H pointed how beautiful little C had been. And indeed, she was, my precious tiny firstborn.

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7 thoughts on “birth story part four: similarities

  1. I am so glad you were able to spend time with the girls. You will continue to remember your girls and think about their beautiful faces. We had similar conversations about what and who Jackson looked like. I think it is healthy and really helps the grieving process. Thinking about you.

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